Wow! You are really generous. My girlfriend and her family do Nikken,
and I can't bring myself to spend a dime on it - even as a support.
I just can't see myself feeding the upline. We've had several fights
about it, but at this point I am sticking to my guns - and I am going
to let the relationship go where it goes. Best case - she sees real
soon that mlm is a dead end, or we just move on. Good luck to you!!
--- In mlmsurvivorsclub@
<Narcissedespres@
>
> My boyfriend is in Quixtar, and I decided awhile back to support him
> in his *selling* efforts (but not the "sharing of the plan" part). I
> realized that I had to support *some* part of his business efforts to
> avoid a total relationship breakdown. I buy a few things from him on a
> sporadic basis. My items are not enough to make or break the PV level
> he gets, and I have him order them for me only when he's placing an
> order himself (I refuse to pay the shipping costs, which are very
> high). The few products I get are, in my opinion, of good quality and
> are priced well at the IBO price. To me, the real problem with the
> business lies in the "motivational" aspect, not in the product retail,
> though so many of the products ARE way overpriced.
>
>
> -EA
> --- In mlmsurvivorsclub@
> wrote:
> >
> > If you like those products - I'd keep buying them. That way you CAN
> > say you are being "supportive" - and hopefully, it will keep the lines
> > of communication open. There's certainly not enough PV involved to
> > earn him a bonus.
> >
> > And I'm another one who agrees that it's good to charge him rent.
> > It's what an "adult" does; and it cuts back his expendable income for
> > "tools" (Tapes and stuff from the AMO).
> >
> > The "tough one" will be: what will you do when he says he can't pay
> > rent because he needs to go to some expensive Function?? I'm pretty
> > sure his upline will be pushing him to do that.
> >
> > Deb
> >
> >
> > --- In mlmsurvivorsclub@
> > >
> > > Much of the advice I've heard (re:20 year old son involved in
Quixtar
> > > for 2 years) is to stop giving him financial support. I buy 3
of his
> > > products, even though the prices are inflated...sports drinks,
protein
> > > drinks and the re-incarnation of Amway laundry soap. My husband
> > > thinks I should stop buying these. Feedback?
> > >
> >
>
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