On 17 Mar 2008 at 17:01, rubyshamrock4 wrote:
> I can understand not wanting to be high pressured, but don't overreact
> to an act of generosity.
I didn't see anything generous in what Roxy's sis gave to her after her
surgery. This reminds me of what my narcissistic MIL once said to me when
we were discussing gifts. We were discussing the definition of a "gift". So
my definition of a gift is giving someone something that will make their heart
sing or bring a smile to their face. My MIL replied that the true definition of a
gift is giving someone something that YOU think they should have.
Roxy...I don't think you are overreacting and I certainly don't think that your
sister was behaving generously.
Lauren
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