Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Re: [MLM Survivors Club] Sister Dissed Her

--- In mlmsurvivorsclub@yahoogroups.com, tink134 <tink134@...> wrote:
>
> Tyler,
> I sincerely hope that she doesn't make this more
> important than her children! My dad made a similar
> remark after the scene at my apartment...
>
> Also, since your Mom was a part of Arbonne you might
> know this: Do the "uplines" guilt people into being
> present at all training sessions and parties and
> meetings the way she guilted me for not supporting
> her? It seems like a lot of negativity!
>
> Is your Mom still a part of this company?
>
> -Roxy
>
>

Roxy,
I've read your post and the many responces you have gotten. My
heart goes out to you. It's bad enough that your sister has been so
nasty to you, but doublely so when you were going through heart
surgery and needed her support. It's really sad but when involved in
MLM not much else matters. My son is in Quixtar and I know of two
people in his line that have gone away to a conference the last three
years when it was their children's birthdays. So, yes I'm afraid that
their MLM becomes their first priority. Quixtar tells them that by
going to meetings, conferences, and especially all the time spent
recuiting, that they are building their business so that they'll be
able to spend more time with their families in the future. My
reaction to that is they will never be able to get back the time they
lost with them no matter what. And yes, they are guilted into going
to all functions. It keeps them "Plugged In" (I call it brainwashed).
They say it sets a good example for their downline. I call that a way
to make more money for people at the top. Negative? Hell yes, to us,
but they convince everyone that everything they do is positive. The
negativity comes from the outside, us. But just what if someone
decided NOT to go to a function, buy books or CDs (the tools you need
to build your business) or decide to leave the business? I would bet
a lot of negativity would be said from the uplines. But of course
they are just trying to help them build their business.

Jacie

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