> Oh heck no, I know about ALL these MLM
> evil doers. I would never in my life
> join network marketing. I need compelling
> evidence, and I am researching to get her
> out of it.
I can assure you that there is no evidence you can present that will
get her out of it. Period.
The ONLY evidence you can offer to her is questions. Questions will
make HER search for the answers and, maybe, find out the truth. She
is probably being shielded from "negative" (read: contradicting what
she is being taught) information, and anything you say will brand you
as a "dreamstealer" and a "broke loser."
If she hears it from you, it can be refuted. If she finds it out for
herself, she'll be more likely to believe it. In either case, it's
likely to take time and patience.
Also, you're going to have to come of a little less aggressive with
her than you sound here if you're going to have a prayer of getting
through. People make decisions, and then they DEFEND their decisions.
They don't want to be wrong, and they don't want to be PROVEN wrong,
especially by friends. Get into a confrontation, and she'll be
coached to sever contact with you.
Just get her to look at what she's doing and how it's supposed to
work. If she can figure out where the real money is made and how slim
her chances of making it really are, she'll be more likely to steer
herself in the desired direction, the path you want her to take.
> Hopefully she takes the "negativity" as a true
> sign that there is a scam involved.
It's extremely doubtful. She's being coached as to how she should
handle objections and "negativity.
understands something that only someone who participates in her
company's system can understand. She has "special" information, and
everyone else is, essentially, clueless.
Think about how to get probing questions to her, and you might have a
chance. And be ready to receive her when she exits, whether that's
soon or years from now. She's going to need friends and support when
she discovers what's happened. You can endear yourself to her in a
major way by being there for her with words of support and not "I told
you so."
PW
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