Thanks again for the advice. As you can see I am extremely
emotional about this because MLM has hit even closer to home. She
is not in too deep. She has just purchased their "agent card" or
whatever. I asked her, "if I could find things that were fishy,
would you listen to me?" She said yes. I hope she listens to
me,her sister in law, and my husband, her brother! She got
recruited by her husband's cousin. She told me "Nor said she is
making money, she just bought a new car" What questions should I
ask again? She wants to do the home business thing because she is a
new mom like me. I hope they try to get their money back. My
husband just told me that she said, that she is not paying anything
monthly and just wants to use it for travel discounts, and she gets
kickbacks if she refers people. Please give me the quetions to ask,
I feel so desperate to help her. My husband did say that the more
we tell her not to the more she will go for it. Please feed me the
questions!
--- In mlmsurvivorsclub@
<paine_wwweb_
>
> > Oh heck no, I know about ALL these MLM
> > evil doers. I would never in my life
> > join network marketing. I need compelling
> > evidence, and I am researching to get her
> > out of it.
>
> I can assure you that there is no evidence you can present that
will
> get her out of it. Period.
>
> The ONLY evidence you can offer to her is questions. Questions
will
> make HER search for the answers and, maybe, find out the truth.
She
> is probably being shielded from "negative" (read: contradicting
what
> she is being taught) information, and anything you say will brand
you
> as a "dreamstealer" and a "broke loser."
>
> If she hears it from you, it can be refuted. If she finds it out
for
> herself, she'll be more likely to believe it. In either case, it's
> likely to take time and patience.
>
> Also, you're going to have to come of a little less aggressive with
> her than you sound here if you're going to have a prayer of getting
> through. People make decisions, and then they DEFEND their
decisions.
> They don't want to be wrong, and they don't want to be PROVEN
wrong,
> especially by friends. Get into a confrontation, and she'll be
> coached to sever contact with you.
>
> Just get her to look at what she's doing and how it's supposed to
> work. If she can figure out where the real money is made and how
slim
> her chances of making it really are, she'll be more likely to steer
> herself in the desired direction, the path you want her to take.
>
>
> > Hopefully she takes the "negativity" as a true
> > sign that there is a scam involved.
>
> It's extremely doubtful. She's being coached as to how she should
> handle objections and "negativity.
> understands something that only someone who participates in her
> company's system can understand. She has "special" information,
and
> everyone else is, essentially, clueless.
>
> Think about how to get probing questions to her, and you might
have a
> chance. And be ready to receive her when she exits, whether that's
> soon or years from now. She's going to need friends and support
when
> she discovers what's happened. You can endear yourself to her in a
> major way by being there for her with words of support and not "I
told
> you so."
>
>
> PW
>
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