I don't have time for a thought out responce because I'm trying to get
to Meeting for Worship, but just a quick note: your title on the web
page has your name spelled "Hlen." I'd change that as soon as you can.
Hal
On Sunday 25 November 2007, hlnlovell wrote:
> For those of you that have not been following my story. I met my
> boyfriend when he had been in Primerica for 7 years. Partly my
> pressuring him, and partly money caused him to quit.
>
> Anyway I got laid off and after months of searching and 16 job
> interviews I was getting desperate so became a subsitute teacher and
> I have a contract job that will end in January (that is also when
> the paycheck arrives). I am having trouble paying bills and I get
> annoyed easily. So my boyfriend who has a good paying job decided
> to "spend more time" with Primerica again. Most of the money he
> makes from his real job goes to paying off the debts he got while in
> Primerica. So now he is going back to Primerica to "help me out".
>
> I guess part of MLM behavior is co-dependence. I am blaming myself
> for not finding a job, and "forcing" him into Primerica. In this
> way it is like a drug addiction. Instead of blaming Primerica for
> his troubles he is going back to Primerica and I am the one at
> fault. I told him I did not want him in Primerica again and he
> said "too bad the arrangements have already been made".
>
> I delayed the break-up lecture a couple of times when I thought he
> would leave Primerica behind forever. Now I know it will never
> happen. The brainwashing is complete. The ironic thing is he went
> to a shrink. He worked out other problems but not this one. Thier
> he was with help right in front of him and he did not bother to use
> it.
>
> I guess I have learned quite a few things from this relationship. I
> thought I wanted a guy that would never cheat, treats me like gold,
> and is encouraging in all my endevors. I guess I should add no
> addictive behaviors to the list. I know I will never meet a perfect
> guy, but this behavior is never acceptable.
>
> I guess this whole experience was a test of resolve. I did not join
> an MLM and I need a job. Even in my situation I know better then to
> be wooed in by these kinds of offers. I am praying that one of the
> 5 jobs I have interviewed for in the last 3 weeks will come
> through. I know in my heart one of them will. At that point I will
> break thes chains and be completely free.
>
> By the way in my spare time I created a webpage. I thought I might
> need some new job sills in case things did not work out. Here is
> the web address.
>
> http://www.helenlov
>
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