Monday, November 26, 2007

Re: [MLM Survivors Club] A relapse

Helen,

You need to edit the source code of your page. It is the "title" tag that contains the typo - its the tag just below the script declaration on your page.

Mick

hlnlovell <hlnlovell@yahoo.com> wrote: How do you change Hlen to Helen?

Helen

--- In mlmsurvivorsclub@yahoogroups.com, Hal Vaughan <hal@...> wrote:
>
> I don't have time for a thought out responce because I'm trying to
get
> to Meeting for Worship, but just a quick note: your title on the
web
> page has your name spelled "Hlen." I'd change that as soon as you
can.
>
> Hal
>
> On Sunday 25 November 2007, hlnlovell wrote:
> > For those of you that have not been following my story. I met my
> > boyfriend when he had been in Primerica for 7 years. Partly my
> > pressuring him, and partly money caused him to quit.
> >
> > Anyway I got laid off and after months of searching and 16 job
> > interviews I was getting desperate so became a subsitute teacher
and
> > I have a contract job that will end in January (that is also when
> > the paycheck arrives). I am having trouble paying bills and I
get
> > annoyed easily. So my boyfriend who has a good paying job
decided
> > to "spend more time" with Primerica again. Most of the money he
> > makes from his real job goes to paying off the debts he got
while in
> > Primerica. So now he is going back to Primerica to "help me
out".
> >
> > I guess part of MLM behavior is co-dependence. I am blaming
myself
> > for not finding a job, and "forcing" him into Primerica. In this
> > way it is like a drug addiction. Instead of blaming Primerica
for
> > his troubles he is going back to Primerica and I am the one at
> > fault. I told him I did not want him in Primerica again and he
> > said "too bad the arrangements have already been made".
> >
> > I delayed the break-up lecture a couple of times when I thought
he
> > would leave Primerica behind forever. Now I know it will never
> > happen. The brainwashing is complete. The ironic thing is he
went
> > to a shrink. He worked out other problems but not this one.
Thier
> > he was with help right in front of him and he did not bother to
use
> > it.
> >
> > I guess I have learned quite a few things from this
relationship. I
> > thought I wanted a guy that would never cheat, treats me like
gold,
> > and is encouraging in all my endevors. I guess I should add no
> > addictive behaviors to the list. I know I will never meet a
perfect
> > guy, but this behavior is never acceptable.
> >
> > I guess this whole experience was a test of resolve. I did not
join
> > an MLM and I need a job. Even in my situation I know better then
to
> > be wooed in by these kinds of offers. I am praying that one of
the
> > 5 jobs I have interviewed for in the last 3 weeks will come
> > through. I know in my heart one of them will. At that point I
will
> > break thes chains and be completely free.
> >
> > By the way in my spare time I created a webpage. I thought I
might
> > need some new job sills in case things did not work out. Here is
> > the web address.
> >
> > http://www.helenlovell.com/index.html
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > Yahoo! Groups Links
> >
> >
> >
>





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