Hey Everyone,
I would like to ask for a little bit of advice. My boyfriend used
to be an RVP at Primerica. Now he works a standard 9-5 job in which
he is winning all sorts of awards. I still have a few concerns.
First, he thinks the managers at his present job don't know what
they are doing. So he is planning on giving them all a copy of a
primerica book on how to manage a business. Fortunately it is out of
print and he is having trouble finding it. This makes me think he
has not quite gotten over Primerica.
Secondly, he is still a district something-or-
steps lower. Which means he is not "allowed" to advance to an RVP
position again. It also frees him of managing an office and Saturday
meetings. Nor does he go to any other meetings. However he is
collecting money from previous clients every month. I do not feel
right about him collecting money from this organization. He is in
desperate need of cash and this brings in income. I am not sure how
to approach this one. He is making money without doing anything but
I don't like the source.
Thirdly, he still has his IRA with Primerica. I have mine in
Vanguard. Mine is doing extremely well and I keep hinting he should
move his money. However is convinced that Primerica is as good as
Vanguard and moving the money would not gain him anything.
How do I get him to finally break the chain with Primerica? Now
that he is not as engaged with Primerica he is looking at people
differently. They are no longer potential clients or recruits they
are potential friends.
Also he is seeing the benefits of a real job. Now when he is sick
he goes to the doctor with a $10.00 co-pay. He has time to do
things that he wants when he is off work. Lastly he is not as
stressed about money, now that he knows he has a steady paycheck.
Although some months are better then others.
Has anyone ever been in this situation? How do you get someone to
take that leap of faith and let go of the past?
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