<<Do you think I should confront her upline or don't say anything to
them? Thanks.>>
I would strongly advise against confronting, or even speaking with her
upline about *anything*. As Hal said, it wouldn't do any good and
would likely cause more harm. I know it is far easier said than done,
but I think that it might help for the abuse and Quixtar to be looked
at as two different issues. Both are of concern, but the abuse is the
far more pressing and dangerous of the two at this point in time.
From what you said, it seems as though her husband would be the same
abusive person regardless of Quixtar involvement, so Quixtar alone
cannot be held responsible for his abusive behavior.
Here are some thoughts regarding your daughter's Quixtar involvement.
If she is out "working the business", recruiting/selling/
plan, she may find some time away from her husband. Perhaps that is
another reason why she is working the business so hard. I would
imagine that the "you are a winner" message of Quixtar may also be
having an even stronger effect than usual, since those in abusive
relationships sometimes have low self-esteem (as a direct result of
the actions of the abusive partner). Quixtar may be giving your
daughter something positive (in her mind) to focus on. It might even
be possible that she sees the financial promises of Quixtar as an
eventual escape route.
These are all just guesses, of course, and they may all be totally
off-base. Please continue to keep us updated!
-EA
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