That's a good suggestion, thank you. How long were you in the
relationship?
--- In mlmsurvivorsclub@
<bolongs@...
>
> --- In mlmsurvivorsclub@
wrote:
> >Ask
> > questions without pointing fingers. Show concern without
appearing
> > demanding. Leave her with resources to turn to should she not
feel
> > comfortable turning to you . . .
>
> This post reminded me of the turning point in my abusive
relationship.
> My mother, while visiting us, bought 3 copies of "Men Who Hate
Women
> and the Women Who Love Them", 1 for my sister, 1 for Mom's friend
and
> 1 for Mom (a psychologist)
me,
> but I grabbed it and read it through quickly (while he was out). I
> recognized myself in the book, and it turned my thinking around
> dramatically. I was no longer lost in a fog of confusion, but
> realized that the fog was my way of intentionally obscuring my
anger.
>
> I don't know if that book is still in print, but there are sure to
be
> many books like it out now. You might try to find a way of
innocently
> and unobtrusively making one available to your daughter.
>
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